posted Sep 8, 2011 6:48 AM by iKhaya Likababa Office
Welcome to Danielle who will be with us for a year. She has already spent time engaging our little ones in activities and will
be
initiating many projects, some of which she has already tackled.
Danielle, a teacher from Tyler in the USA, has slotted into life at
iKhaya and is presently having some driving lessons and not only getting
acquainted with driving 'stick' (MANUAL) but is also 'finding her feet'
on the left hand side of the road. We are enjoying getting to know you, Danni!
Words from Danielle:
"I
am a twenty-something lover of children, travel, writing, reading,
photography, and people in general. In the United States, I was a high
school teacher of English as a Second Language to immigrant students in
Texas.
I
love the learning process. It begins with the feeling of being
unaware. Then there is the most exciting period of possibility and
confusion, followed by the work of committing facts and formulas to
memory. Finally, there is practice and mastery, the feeling of
empowerment. Learning by exploration and
teaching through experience are my missions in life.
I
have come to ikhaya in pursuit of a lifelong dream to impart hope and a
future to orphans. Teaching will undoubtedly be a part of that process
in some way. I intend to draw the ikhaya children on an adventure of
learning and exploration. I plan to invest my abilities of organization
and streamlining in the
ikhaya office. And I fully intend to have the time of my life while
doing it.
While
I have committed one year to ikhaya, there is no cap on the time I may
end up spending here at the orphanage, in Empangeni, or South Africa.
Before leaving the United States, I sold everything that I had, except
for what I would need in South Africa. I want to be free to be fully
invested in my dreams and whatever
future may be in store for me here."
We
have had a busy month with lots on the go. We are currently recruiting
and interviewing staff for the next stage of growth. We want to double
our number of children and in order to do that we need to employ (and
double the number of) our Care givers,and then to get them all
trained. Interviewing and finding the right staff are delicate processes
and it is
going well, with some amazing 'prospects' in the pipeline. Change is
always stretching as we need to be looking ahead, with our vision in
mind, following His call and promptings, which may not be physically visible. Hebrews 11v1 ' Now faith is being sure of what we HOPE for and CERTAIN of what we do not see. '
Please pray with us as we embark on the next exciting leg of this journey. |
posted Sep 8, 2011 6:16 AM by iKhaya Likababa Office
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updated Sep 8, 2011 6:47 AM
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Jennifer has been instrumental to ikhaya with all of her love, laughter and fun that she brings with her from Georgia USA for a very blessed 3 months.A few words from Jennifer: I want to take the time to describe what each day looks like,here at
Ikhaya, to give everyone a better picture of how it works here. This
past week has been a busy, full week. Monday morning I woke up a little
before 7:00am, that gives me plenty of time to get dress, eat breakfast,
and have a little quite time to myself. Then I head to Ikhaya at 8:00.
Its just a short walk from the volunteer house . Ikhaya is located on
the chucrh property, It is maybe six or so acres, which is all fenced
off with a high electric fence, and steel gate at the entrance ( break
ins, and theft is really bad here in south Africa ).The whole property
sit on somewhat of a hill,so you have a pretty good view of rolling
hills in the distance,and you can see the lights for the city at night. A
couple from the church and their daughter live in a house on the
property also, they are a really sweet family. So now back to Ihkaya at
8:00.....the three older kids are already gone to school, so it is the
youngest (1yr), then(2yr), then(2yr), and then(3yr) that are about to
eat their breakfast when I get there. There is also one staff on shift,
all the staff are Zulu women, they also speak English,but it can be hard
to understand sometimes. So I just hangout with the kids for a while,
talk to them, play in the play room,things like that. Then Wendy gets
there (she runs the orphanage) and we go over whats happening in the
week, then I set the kids up in the play room to play “ nicely” by
themselves, and I go to restock for the week. We keep all the food and
supplies locked away in cabinets, ( the staff come from poor homes, and
we don't want to make it a temptation for them ). I check the kitchen
and see what their out of, then when I refill it I write down what I
refilled, it is very organized here, which is a good thing, it helps
with keeping everything on budget. Then I check the bathrooms and put
out more wipes, baby powder, and nappies (diapers), which with two kids
in nappies full time and two more(potty training) half the time, they go
thru a lot. Then I must check the cleaning supplies, and you can only
imagine the washing powder they go thru with seven kids...and we have to
hang the all clothes to dry. So while I'm restocking I'm also looking
at what we are running out of, so I make a grocery list each monday as
I'm restocking and email to a lady that picks up groceries for Ikhaya. I
have about till 12:00 to get all this done, which is usually plenty of
time even with the kids interrupting every five minutes. At 12:30 is
when the kids get out of school so I get in the car and go to pick them
up. They go to a christian school in Empageni ( every time I get better
at driving the stick shift and more at easy on the left side of the
road).when I get them from their class its a fine line between fun and
frustrating. They must carry their own bags and go to the car and get
buckled in. If they don't want to do this for some reason, you can't
just spank them, and since I'm kind of new, the kids and I are learning
what kind of authority I have. But it has been good so far. I try to
keep the atmosphere positive and be firm at the same time. But I
absolutely love drive the kid home, and them telling all about there
day. When we get back they must carry their bags in and eat lunch and
take nap( by this time the small children are in bed). I empty there bag
and check to see if they have any notes from the teacher. By the time
this is done it about 1:00, and all the kids are in their bed ( or are
suppose to be:) , So I head back to my house and lunch. We have a new
volunteer, Danielle who works the afternoon shift, ( she does like to
cook so I've been having fun doing a lot of the cooking for both of us),
when the kids get put at about 3:00 and after they have a snack, its
bath time, starting with the youngest and working to the oldest. That is
a huge job, but fun:) after bath they are allowed to watch one
video.....keeps them from getting to dirty, till supper, then bed. So
that a basics Monday, so times we have to go early to town to go to the
post office, dump, or pick up a donation (of expired food) from the
grocery store, so it can be different from week to week. Then that night
two girls from the church invited us to their house to watch a movie,
we aren't allowed to use the ikhaya car for person use, so if we want to
go some where we have to get someone to pick us up. So Jayne took us
and we watched “Oklahoma”. So where, that was a full Monday. Tuesday,
Wednesday, and Thursday, are the kind of the same,but I don't restock,
so I get a little more time with the kids. Then Friday I restock for the
weekend. So that the structure of the week, with odd jobs to fit in
when possible, like,cut grass, weed garden, thank you letter for
donations, clean out car, help staff with hanging wash, cleaning, or
cooking ahead, just stuff like that, that keeps the whole place running.
Saturday I have off, which in how I'm writing this letter :) we can was
our clothes, and clean our house, and like to night I'm going to some
friends house to eat some impala ( some kind of antelope) and watch a
rugby game and TV. This should be interesting. lol. :) I did a write up
of my over all time here so far (wendy want it for the Ikhaya
newsletter) So I thought I would attach here also. Thanks for all your
prays and words of encouragement. It means so much when I'm so far from
home and family.
When I was young, I had always thought I'd like to work at an
orphanage, But as I grew older that desire seemed to get push farther
away,but the Lord is so good, he does not put desires in your heart just
to leave unfilled. Then when I was 21, it worked out that I could go to
Belgium for two months to be a nanny to a missionary family. The next
year I went back again to the same family for two more months. I learned
so much and it was good for to learn to trust God in new ways. The next
year I did a lot of searching, Trying to figure out what God wanted me
to do with my life. But as other doors shut and as the desire to learn
more about volunteering at orphanage grew. The lord lead me to Ihkaya
Lika Baba, and opened up door wide:) July the 6th I landed in South
Africa, I had not grasped what it would be like working at an orphanage.
When I thought of orphanages before I thought of it beginning crowded,
maybe dirty, and a very sad place to be. But now that I've been at
Ikhaya for over a month I can say it is different here. It's not a
perfect world,but here the children are taken care of, invested in, and
most importantly loved. And I've been so blessed to be apart of that. I
LOVE being with the kids and giving them love. I will be very sad to
leave at the end of September, But I have learned so much sense I have
arrived ...how to drive manual, and on the left side of the road( so I
could pick up the three oldest kids from school),how abandonment really
affects children,how to juggle four children who want your attention all
to their selves(still learning on that one:)),how to work as a team
with the Ikhaya family, But the greatest thing I've learned is the
Greatness of our Lord, thru the love, and passion, that the people here
have for God's smallest of children.
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posted Jan 7, 2011 12:16 AM by iKhaya Likababa Office
I am
from Sydney, Australia. The second of 7 children, I moved to London
late 2008. After spending two wonderful years there, it was time to
go back to Australia. I decided that I wanted to visit Africa on the
way home. As well as doing a Safari trip, I wanted to do some
volunteer work.
One of
the friends I met in London was from South Africa. She put me in
touch with her mum who put me in touch with iKhaya LikaBaba. I
arranged to do two weeks of Volunteer work.
I
didn’t know what to expect. I turned up on my first day and met the
children and Wendy, the Manager. During my time there, I was involved
in many different tasks all ranging in different physical levels.
Some of
the things that I did included painting the doll house, organise the
office, read to the children, play games with them, arrange a store
room, moving concrete and other general tasks.
It is
hard on the heart to see these beautiful children who are totally
innocent and have had a tough start to life. But iKhaya LikaBaba is a
great facility to give them love and attention that they might not
get in other ways.
I have
thoroughly enjoyed my time at iKhaya LikaBaba. I wish that my plans
allowed me to stay longer. The other volunteers that were there were
also great. We got along well and I learnt a lot about their
countries from them.
Once I
get back to Australia, I will be closely monitoring the progress of
iKhaya LikaBaba and look forward to the growth of the project in the
next few years.
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posted Dec 8, 2010 5:45 AM by Wendy Oxley
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updated Dec 10, 2010 5:49 AM
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Hi! I am from Canada...and I have been totally blown away from this experience at iKhaya LikaBaba. I know that I've read from previous volunteers that they did not want to leave here...but I didn't fully understand it until I arrived! :)
If you have ever contemplated volunteering and have a heart for serving and orphans, please don't hestitate to reach out to iKhaya, because I promise you that it will be a life changing experience.
I have never quite felt so much love in one place before - From the Wendy, to the staff, to the church and the other volunteers - I've gained a whole new family and I'm too sad to think about leaving. The children are absolutey adorable and I am so impressed by how well they are taken care of and also taught proper manners and to take care of themselves. Of course they are children, and they like to play a lot and have an occasional tantrum, but nonetheless, when you look into their eyes, you could never believe that anyone would want to abandon them.
I will never forget this time in my life because it has truly been a blessing and shown me how much love there can be when you serve others. Not everyone is as blessed as those in other parts of the world in terms of finances, however, here at iKhaya they are RICH in LOVE and kindness.
Thank you so much to everyone here who has made me feel at home. I am so happy and joyful that words cannot express - to my new sisters and brothers, Anne, Timon, Ty, Nikki, Helga, Swan, T, Jenny, Wendy, Andrew, Brett, Leah, Jayne, Molefe, Noma, Jodie, Peter & Lesley...and so many others...I love you more than words can say. To the little children of iKhaya...I LOVE YOU!
Precious Memories:
- Reading to the children when they are going to sleep
- Hearing about when the children were role-playing and pretending to be volunteers (Which really showed that the volunteers really do make an impact on these children's lives
- Seeing the children graduate to the next level in school and their Christmas pagent
- Holding them, hugging them!!!
- Going to an amazing church where Gods love and Spirit is so apparent and abundant
- Meeting people who open up their homes and love unconditionally
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posted Dec 8, 2010 5:42 AM by Wendy Oxley
Welcome to Anne who has been here nearly two weeks already.Anne is from
Germany and will be with us until next June. She is staying in the
volunteers' house and is already loved by our little ones and finding
her way into peoples' hearts. Soon Anne will introduce herself and we
will pblish a write -up about her on this blog, so watch this space!
Welcome Anne!
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posted Dec 8, 2010 5:40 AM by Wendy Oxley
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updated Dec 8, 2010 5:42 AM
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Hi! My name is Nikki, and I come from Manchester in England. I'm 22 years old and a student at the University of Nottingham. When
I'm not at University I live at home with my Mum, Dad, younger sister
Jenny and my dog Sam. In my spare time I enjoy swimming and running and
baking cakes! I
am currently staying with family who live in Empangeni while I
volunteer at ikhaya for 6 weeks. While I'm in South Africa I will also
be spending some time working at a local hospital as this is very
relevant to my degree and I hope I can learn something useful! I
am really enjoying spending so much time with the children and staff at
Ikhaya! However, I will be flying home in time to spend Christmas 2010
with my family. |
posted Dec 8, 2010 5:37 AM by Wendy Oxley
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updated Jul 1, 2011 1:56 PM by iKhaya Likababa Office
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Hi,
my name is Timon K., 21 years, and I come from Hessisch Oldendorf,
a small town in Germany, far away, but oddly in the same time zone as
South Africa. I finished school after 13 years and served an
apprenticeship as an industrial merchant in a snack company for two
years. After completing this I worked in the same company in the
marketing department. I
decided that I wanted to go to South Africa for one year to do a social
year for god by helping other people. God was so generous to me the
last time! I also want to improve my English, (so please help me!) and
to gain new experiences. After
searching the internet for suitable volunteer work, I arrived at this
wonderful orphanage in Empangeni. Now I'm a volunteer working and
staying at Ikhaya. My jobs are different each day: driving (I have had
to get used to the driving on the left), office and internet work,
gardening, building jobs, caring for the kids and all the other jobs
left over! I like my jobs! My hobbies are mountain biking, swimming, taking photos, visiting foreign places, meeting friends and more. I hope this year will change my life! |
posted Dec 8, 2010 5:35 AM by Wendy Oxley
My
name is Ty. Well actually it's Timon but because there is another
volunteer with the same name who is staying here for the same amount of
time, everyone came up with this nickname for me. I'm 19 years old, I
have lived in Germany my entire life and now I'm volunteering for one
year at this beautiful and very precious orphanage “iKhaya LikaBaba.”When
I was in South Africa 3 years ago, I have dreamt of coming back because
I have loved this place from the beginning. This dream came true when I
finished school a couple of months ago and decided to take a gap year
in order to be involved in a social project. Since I had good contacts
with iKhaya the decision was easy to spend this year in Empangeni, and
I think being here is exactly right.
Working
at iKhaya LikaBaba, playing with the kids and babies and helping to
make this orphanage a nice, peaceful shelter and home is very
fulfilling and definitely worth being involved in! I always loved to
work with kids and youth. In my church in Germany I have been part of
the kid’s ministry for a very long time and for the last two years my
main focus has been opening and leading the youth. These years have
shaped my character and formed my spiritual life extremely! Though I
have not much experience in working with babies and toddlers, like
those at iKhaya, I have always had a heart for kids and loved to be
around them. I
also love music! Playing my acoustic guitar is very relaxing for me and
there is really no greater joy then playing the bass in the worship
team in my home-church. I
am very glad that I can combine the work with kids at iKhaya LikaBaba
with being involved in worship at youth in the local church and
homegroup! Being
in a foreign country, speaking a different language and doing something
you have never done before is exciting and challenging every single
day. But I love it! |
posted Dec 8, 2010 5:28 AM by Wendy Oxley
With excitement we have welcomed the Budal family from Norway.
They arrived in Jhb on Friday 20th August , purchased a vehicle on
Saturday 21st August and drove to Empangeni reaching here at 21h00 that
evening. This family of 5 have uprooted from their home and
made huge sacrifices simply to come and serve and work at iKhaya, for
10 months. Tormod will be working on Oilrigs on alternate months
reuniting with his family back inEmpangeni, every 2 nd month for some
rest. Jenny and her 2 daughters Helga Sofie and Svanhild will be at
iKhaya and knitting in with our staff, volunteers and children, helping
with the running of our home . Trygve (13) will be starting school this
coming Wednesday at Felixton College to continue his education,
locally. This amazing family arrived at iKhayalikababa on
Monday morning to meet the babies and the staff and to get orientated
and to see what needs attention. The very next day they
arrived at 'work' and in no time at all, repaired a wooden table in the
play room, assembled a trampoline, made a list of missing parts and
started the huge task of sorting through our store room, in between
playing with our little babe who is too young to be at school. Please pop in to meet this wonderful family, and to see the outworking of their hearts through iKhaya and our children. Svanhil Budal's Blog Post |
posted Dec 8, 2010 5:27 AM by Wendy Oxley
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