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We are in  need of a  refrigerator for our Volunteer home,a kettle for iKhaya and wooden 'cubbies' for our baby Nursery . We need disposable nappies from 12 kg's up. (size 5) desperately. We are hoping to get one of our showers 'working'-all we are needing are the doors to enclose it- 2 sided unit. 

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PBO 930.002.942.9 

Contact: Wendy Oxley 
   
PO Box 3884 
Empangeni 
KwaZulu Natal 
South Africa 
3880 
 
Telephone:  +27.35.7911.116
  
 Fax: +27.86.212.2418

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    September 8, 2011
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2010 - 2011 Volunteers


Danielle Engelhorn - August 2011

posted Sep 8, 2011 6:48 AM by iKhaya Likababa Office


Welcome to Danielle who will be with us for a year. She has already spent time engaging our little ones in activities and will
be initiating many projects, some of which she has already tackled. Danielle, a teacher from Tyler in the USA, has slotted into life at iKhaya and is presently having some driving lessons and not only getting acquainted with driving 'stick' (MANUAL) but is also 'finding her feet' on the left hand side of the road. We are enjoying getting to know you, Danni!
 




Words from Danielle
:
 
"I am a twenty-something lover of children, travel, writing, reading, photography, and people in general.  In the United States, I was a high school teacher of English as a Second Language to immigrant students in Texas. 
 
I love the learning process.  It begins with the feeling of being unaware.  Then there is the most exciting period of possibility and confusion, followed by the work of committing facts and formulas to memory.  Finally, there is practice and mastery, the feeling of empowerment.  Learning by exploration and teaching through experience are my missions in life.
 
I have come to ikhaya in pursuit of a lifelong dream to impart hope and a future to orphans.  Teaching will undoubtedly be a part of that process in some way.  I intend to draw the ikhaya children on an adventure of learning and exploration.  I plan to invest my abilities of organization and streamlining in the ikhaya office.  And I fully intend to have the time of my life while doing it.
 
While I have committed one year to ikhaya, there is no cap on the time I may end up spending here at the orphanage, in Empangeni, or South Africa.  Before leaving the United States, I sold everything that I had, except for what I would need in South Africa.  I want to be free to be fully invested in my dreams and whatever future may be in store for me here."
 
 
We have had a busy month with lots on the go. We are currently recruiting and interviewing staff for the next stage of growth. We want to double our number of children and in order to do that we need to employ (and double the number of) our Care givers,and then to get them all trained. Interviewing and finding the right staff are delicate processes and it is going well, with some amazing 'prospects' in the pipeline. Change is always stretching as we need to be looking ahead, with our vision in mind, following His call and promptings, which may not be physically visible. Hebrews 11v1 ' Now faith is being sure of what we HOPE for and CERTAIN of what we do not see. '
Please pray with us as we embark on the next exciting leg of this journey.

Jennifer Mooney - July 2011

posted Sep 8, 2011 6:16 AM by iKhaya Likababa Office   [ updated Sep 8, 2011 6:47 AM ]

Jennifer has been instrumental to ikhaya with all of her love, laughter and fun that she brings with her from Georgia USA for a very blessed 3 months.

A few words from Jennifer:

I want to take the time to describe what each day looks like,here at Ikhaya, to give everyone a better picture of how it works here. This past week has been a busy, full week. Monday morning I woke up a little before 7:00am, that gives me plenty of time to get dress, eat breakfast, and have a little quite time to myself. Then I head to Ikhaya at 8:00. Its just a short walk from the volunteer house . Ikhaya is located on the chucrh property, It is maybe six or so acres, which is all fenced off with a high electric fence, and steel gate at the entrance ( break ins, and theft is really bad here in south Africa ).The whole property sit on somewhat of a hill,so you have a pretty good view of rolling hills in the distance,and you can see the lights for the city at night. A couple from the church and their daughter live in a house on the property also, they are a really sweet family. So now back to Ihkaya at 8:00.....the three older kids are already gone to school, so it is the youngest (1yr), then(2yr), then(2yr), and then(3yr) that are about to eat their breakfast when I get there. There is also one staff on shift, all the staff are Zulu women, they also speak English,but it can be hard to understand sometimes. So I just hangout with the kids for a while, talk to them, play in the play room,things like that. Then Wendy gets there (she runs the orphanage) and we go over whats happening in the week, then I set the kids up in the play room to play “ nicely” by themselves, and I go to restock for the week. We keep all the food and supplies locked away in cabinets, ( the staff come from poor homes, and we don't want to make it a temptation for them ). I check the kitchen and see what their out of, then when I refill it I write down what I refilled, it is very organized here, which is a good thing, it helps with keeping everything on budget. Then I check the bathrooms and put out more wipes, baby powder, and nappies (diapers), which with two kids in nappies full time and two more(potty training) half the time, they go thru a lot. Then I must check the cleaning supplies, and you can only imagine the washing powder they go thru with seven kids...and we have to hang the all clothes to dry. So while I'm restocking I'm also looking at what we are running out of, so I make a grocery list each monday as I'm restocking and email to a lady that picks up groceries for Ikhaya. I have about till 12:00 to get all this done, which is usually plenty of time even with the kids interrupting every five minutes. At 12:30 is when the kids get out of school so I get in the car and go to pick them up. They go to a christian school in Empageni ( every time I get better at driving the stick shift and more at easy on the left side of the road).when I get them from their class its a fine line between fun and frustrating. They must carry their own bags and go to the car and get buckled in. If they don't want to do this for some reason, you can't just spank them, and since I'm kind of new, the kids and I are learning what kind of authority I have. But it has been good so far. I try to keep the atmosphere positive and be firm at the same time. But I absolutely love drive the kid home, and them telling all about there day. When we get back they must carry their bags in and eat lunch and take nap( by this time the small children are in bed). I empty there bag and check to see if they have any notes from the teacher. By the time this is done it about 1:00, and all the kids are in their bed ( or are suppose to be:) , So I head back to my house and lunch. We have a new volunteer, Danielle who works the afternoon shift, ( she does like to cook so I've been having fun doing a lot of the cooking for both of us), when the kids get put at about 3:00 and after they have a snack, its bath time, starting with the youngest and working to the oldest. That is a huge job, but fun:) after bath they are allowed to watch one video.....keeps them from getting to dirty, till supper, then bed. So that a basics Monday, so times we have to go early to town to go to the post office, dump, or pick up a donation (of expired food) from the grocery store, so it can be different from week to week. Then that night two girls from the church invited us to their house to watch a movie, we aren't allowed to use the ikhaya car for person use, so if we want to go some where we have to get someone to pick us up. So Jayne took us and we watched “Oklahoma”. So where, that was a full Monday. Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, are the kind of the same,but I don't restock, so I get a little more time with the kids. Then Friday I restock for the weekend. So that the structure of the week, with odd jobs to fit in when possible, like,cut grass, weed garden, thank you letter for donations, clean out car, help staff with hanging wash, cleaning, or cooking ahead, just stuff like that, that keeps the whole place running. Saturday I have off, which in how I'm writing this letter :) we can was our clothes, and clean our house, and like to night I'm going to some friends house to eat some impala ( some kind of antelope) and watch a rugby game and TV. This should be interesting. lol. :) I did a write up of my over all time here so far (wendy want it for the Ikhaya newsletter) So I thought I would attach here also. Thanks for all your prays and words of encouragement. It means so much when I'm so far from home and family.

When I was young, I had always thought I'd like to work at an orphanage, But as I grew older that desire seemed to get push farther away,but the Lord is so good, he does not put desires in your heart just to leave unfilled. Then when I was 21, it worked out that I could go to Belgium for two months to be a nanny to a missionary family. The next year I went back again to the same family for two more months. I learned so much and it was good for to learn to trust God in new ways. The next year I did a lot of searching, Trying to figure out what God wanted me to do with my life. But as other doors shut and as the desire to learn more about volunteering at orphanage grew. The lord lead me to Ihkaya Lika Baba, and opened up door wide:) July the 6th I landed in South Africa, I had not grasped what it would be like working at an orphanage. When I thought of orphanages before I thought of it beginning crowded, maybe dirty, and a very sad place to be. But now that I've been at Ikhaya for over a month I can say it is different here. It's not a perfect world,but here the children are taken care of, invested in, and most importantly loved. And I've been so blessed to be apart of that. I LOVE being with the kids and giving them love. I will be very sad to leave at the end of September, But I have learned so much sense I have arrived ...how to drive manual, and on the left side of the road( so I could pick up the three oldest kids from school),how abandonment really affects children,how to juggle four children who want your attention all to their selves(still learning on that one:)),how to work as a team with the Ikhaya family, But the greatest thing I've learned is the Greatness of our Lord, thru the love, and passion, that the people here have for God's smallest of children.

Veronica - January 2011

posted Jan 7, 2011 12:16 AM by iKhaya Likababa Office

I am from Sydney, Australia. The second of 7 children, I moved to London late 2008. After spending two wonderful years there, it was time to go back to Australia. I decided that I wanted to visit Africa on the way home. As well as doing a Safari trip, I wanted to do some volunteer work.

One of the friends I met in London was from South Africa. She put me in touch with her mum who put me in touch with iKhaya LikaBaba. I arranged to do two weeks of Volunteer work.

I didn’t know what to expect. I turned up on my first day and met the children and Wendy, the Manager. During my time there, I was involved in many different tasks all ranging in different physical levels.

Some of the things that I did included painting the doll house, organise the office, read to the children, play games with them, arrange a store room, moving concrete and other general tasks.

It is hard on the heart to see these beautiful children who are totally innocent and have had a tough start to life. But iKhaya LikaBaba is a great facility to give them love and attention that they might not get in other ways.

I have thoroughly enjoyed my time at iKhaya LikaBaba. I wish that my plans allowed me to stay longer. The other volunteers that were there were also great. We got along well and I learnt a lot about their countries from them.

Once I get back to Australia, I will be closely monitoring the progress of iKhaya LikaBaba and look forward to the growth of the project in the next few years.

Lynn - November 2010

posted Dec 8, 2010 5:45 AM by Wendy Oxley   [ updated Dec 10, 2010 5:49 AM ]

Hi! I am from Canada...and I have been totally blown away from this experience at iKhaya LikaBaba. I know that I've read from previous volunteers that they did not want to leave here...but I didn't fully understand it until I arrived! :)
If you have ever contemplated volunteering and have a heart for serving and orphans, please don't hestitate to reach out to iKhaya, because I promise you that it will be a life changing experience.
I have never quite felt so much love in one place before - From the Wendy, to the staff, to the church and the other volunteers - I've gained a whole new family and I'm too sad to think about leaving. The children are absolutey adorable and I am so impressed by how well they are taken care of and also taught proper manners and to take care of themselves. Of course they are children, and they like to play a lot and have an occasional tantrum, but nonetheless, when you look into their eyes, you could never believe that anyone would want to abandon them.
 
I will never forget this time in my life because it has truly been a blessing and shown me how much love there can be when you serve others. Not everyone is as blessed as those in other parts of the world in terms of finances, however, here at iKhaya they are RICH in LOVE and kindness.
Thank you so much to everyone here who has made me feel at home. I am so happy and joyful that words cannot express - to my new sisters and brothers, Anne, Timon, Ty, Nikki, Helga, Swan, T, Jenny, Wendy, Andrew, Brett, Leah, Jayne, Molefe, Noma, Jodie, Peter & Lesley...and so many others...I love you more than words can say. To the little children of iKhaya...I LOVE YOU!
 

Precious Memories:

  • Reading to the children when they are going to sleep
  • Hearing about when the children were role-playing and pretending to be volunteers (Which really showed that the volunteers really do make an impact on these children's lives
  • Seeing the children graduate to the next level in school and their Christmas pagent
  • Holding them, hugging them!!!
  • Going to an amazing church where Gods love and Spirit is so apparent and abundant
  • Meeting people who open up their homes and love unconditionally

Anne - October 2010

posted Dec 8, 2010 5:42 AM by Wendy Oxley

Welcome to Anne who has been here nearly two weeks already.Anne is from Germany and will be with us until next June. She is staying in the volunteers' house and is already loved by our little ones and finding her way into peoples' hearts. Soon Anne will introduce herself and we will pblish a write -up about her on this blog, so watch this space! Welcome Anne!

Nikki Hardy - September 2010

posted Dec 8, 2010 5:40 AM by Wendy Oxley   [ updated Dec 8, 2010 5:42 AM ]

Hi! My name is Nikki, and I come from Manchester in England. I'm 22 years old and a student at the University of Nottingham.

When I'm not at University I live at home with my Mum, Dad, younger sister Jenny and my dog Sam. In my spare time I enjoy swimming and running and baking cakes!

I am currently staying with family who live in Empangeni while I volunteer at ikhaya for 6 weeks. While I'm in South Africa I will also be spending some time working at a local hospital as this is very relevant to my degree and I hope I can learn something useful!

I am really enjoying spending so much time with the children and staff at Ikhaya! However, I will be flying home in time to spend Christmas 2010 with my family.

Timon K. - September 2010

posted Dec 8, 2010 5:37 AM by Wendy Oxley   [ updated Jul 1, 2011 1:56 PM by iKhaya Likababa Office ]

Hi, my name is Timon K., 21 years, and I come from Hessisch Oldendorf, a small town in Germany, far away, but oddly in the same time zone as South Africa. I finished school after 13 years and served an apprenticeship as an industrial merchant in a snack company for two years. After completing this I worked in the same company in the marketing department.

I decided that I wanted to go to South Africa for one year to do a social year for god by helping other people. God was so generous to me the last time! I also want to improve my English, (so please help me!) and to gain new experiences.

After searching the internet for suitable volunteer work, I arrived at this wonderful orphanage in Empangeni. Now I'm a volunteer working and staying at Ikhaya. My jobs are different each day: driving (I have had to get used to the driving on the left), office and internet work, gardening, building jobs, caring for the kids and all the other jobs left over! I like my jobs!

My hobbies are mountain biking, swimming, taking photos, visiting foreign places, meeting friends and more.

I hope this year will change my life!

Ty Heuser - September 2010

posted Dec 8, 2010 5:35 AM by Wendy Oxley

My name is Ty. Well actually it's Timon but because there is another volunteer with the same name who is staying here for the same amount of time, everyone came up with this nickname for me. I'm 19 years old, I have lived in Germany my entire life and now I'm volunteering for one year at this beautiful and very precious orphanage “iKhaya LikaBaba.”

When I was in South Africa 3 years ago, I have dreamt of coming back because I have loved this place from the beginning. This dream came true when I finished school a couple of months ago and decided to take a gap year in order to be involved in a social project. Since I had good contacts with iKhaya the decision was easy to spend this year in Empangeni, and I think being here is exactly right.


Working at iKhaya LikaBaba, playing with the kids and babies and helping to make this orphanage a nice, peaceful shelter and home is very fulfilling and definitely worth being involved in! I always loved to work with kids and youth. In my church in Germany I have been part of the kid’s ministry for a very long time and for the last two years my main focus has been opening and leading the youth. These years have shaped my character and formed my spiritual life extremely! Though I have not much experience in working with babies and toddlers, like those at iKhaya, I have always had a heart for kids and loved to be around them.


I also love music! Playing my acoustic guitar is very relaxing for me and there is really no greater joy then playing the bass in the worship team in my home-church.


I am very glad that I can combine the work with kids at iKhaya LikaBaba with being involved in worship at youth in the local church and homegroup!


Being in a foreign country, speaking a different language and doing something you have never done before is exciting and challenging every single day. But I love it!

Budal Family - August 2010

posted Dec 8, 2010 5:28 AM by Wendy Oxley

With excitement we have welcomed the Budal family from Norway. They arrived in Jhb on Friday 20th August , purchased a vehicle on Saturday 21st August and drove to Empangeni reaching here at 21h00 that evening.
This family of 5 have uprooted from their home and made huge sacrifices simply to come and serve and work at iKhaya, for 10 months. Tormod will be working on Oilrigs on alternate months reuniting with his family back inEmpangeni, every 2 nd month for some rest. Jenny and her 2 daughters Helga Sofie and Svanhild will be at iKhaya and knitting in with our staff, volunteers and children, helping with the running of our home . Trygve (13) will be starting school this coming Wednesday at Felixton College to continue his education, locally.
This amazing family arrived at iKhayalikababa on Monday morning to meet the babies and the staff and to get orientated and to see what needs attention.
The very next day they arrived at 'work' and in no time at all, repaired a wooden table in the play room, assembled a trampoline, made a list of missing parts and started the huge task of sorting through our store room, in between playing with our little babe who is too young to be at school.
Please pop in to meet this wonderful family, and to see the outworking of their hearts through iKhaya and our children.

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